Ha UGH!. Answering my own questions here.
All PUSH technologies appear to ONLY be available with the premium service. I guess thats what I should expect.
I suppose it wont be to big of a hassle to have my computer sync the information. It's just be nice to be able to make a change when im at work (which is were I am 80% of the time meetings are scheduled) and have it synced directly to my phone after I make the change on my computer. I guess the way around that is to just plug the information directly into my phone and have it sync back to my work computer when I get back around my personal laptop again (Exchange syncing).
Thoughts??
UPDATE: Now i'm MORE confused. After reading/watching about MobileMe, I have no idea what ATT plan is needed for the push ability. MobileMe is slick apple hosted software, but does it require the enterprise plan? It doesnt look like it does. However, what if you're apart of a large organization like I am that already has this technology (via Exchange without the galleries/idisk). Is the Enterprise service STILL needed for the push ability? Ugh my head is turning!
BTW:
Check this service out. Check out the Vista compatibility and the browser software. These are the types of software i'm in love with. Clean and simple; just set up to do what it's needed to do. You don't need a friggen Ph.D. in CS to understand the crap.
Check it out:
http://www.apple.com/mobileme/guidedtour/index.html?size=large