I grew up an hour east of Buffalo just outside of Rochester, NY. I often drove to Buffalo to eat at Anchor Bar (original Buffalo wings) or you can go to Duff's (much less atmosphere than Anchor Bar) for some good wings. Take a drive down Rt18 heading east as it parallels Lake Ontario, has many beaches you can visit. If you want to drive to Toronto which is maybe 2 hours away, you can visit the CN Tower, Science Museum or walk down Young Street after dark for some entertainment. The kids may like a day at the amusement park, it was called Darien Lake back in my day and may be Six Flags now. It is located in Darien.
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